Now, I knew that wasn't ACTUALLY going to happen. But apparently Kate thought it was, so I sent Alyssa a text to let her know that I wouldn't be the only one missing her. Her response?
Kate's response was actually "Wait, Stevie guilt someone into doing something? Noooooo"
So I called my mom and she said "I don't know that i'd say you guilt people... but you do know how to get people not to say no to you."
Guys... I think i'm THAT person. The person who, when I want something from you, will get you to do it not just because you want to, but because i'll make you feel bad if you don't.
I hate that person.
So, of course my response was that I was going to blog about this. I'm sure my friends and family reading this are all nodding their heads in agreement, because they know i'm just as bad about this as i'm making it seem, if not worse.
Anyway, i'm going to try my best to stop this. It's not a personality trait i'm proud of and it's certainly not something that I want my friends to associate with me. I mean, Alyssa and I have been texting for MAYBE 2 weeks and she already knows this about me? No good. It's bad friend behavior and I don't like it.
Are any of you guilty (oy) of this? How can I make a conscious effort to change it?